Police are currently trying to identify the deceased. EXCLUSIVE: Lanzarote sticks to its guns and insists it WILL limit tourists and move away from relying on Nearly half of British viewers believe ethnic minorities and LGBT communities are over-represented on TV, Is YOUR wood burner at risk? See, I bet this woman wished she could have been part of that society too, going to work, having a routine, getting on with an ordinary life, having someone to complain to, to vent, to get it out of her system. I doubt she was thinking along those lines though. A mess, yes. the guy then got stuck between the platform and the train and it was a huge mess, he said. I bet that's exactly what she wanted. Some say the most efficient way is to jump into an active volcano. why?". It seems some people don't understand the meaning of the word 'selfish': lacking consideration for others. No one as far as I can see is accusing suicides in general or this woman in particular of being malevolent. contact the editor here. I don't know the severity of that woman'situation, so I can't say what pushed her over the edge, but I doubt she had any people she could be open with or even had a shoulder to lean on. Maybe J-goverment needs to import more U.S. and western Psycologist that is familar with the Japanese culture and approach from a different angle. Sweater dresses are perfect for cooler weather, because theyre made of thicker fabric that can keep you warm even when the temperatures drop. I doubt if she needs any now. The incident occurred as the train was pulling into the Lorimer Street station around 7:42 p.m., according to. Cleo-summed it up best. True, suicide is seen as selfish in many parts of the world, but most of those who think this (even myself sometimes) cannot even begin to understand what makes a person contemplate let alone choose such a route. Four shoppers sustained minor injuries in the incident. Somehow she didn't fit in to it. Expect delays on 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 trains. Sorry to sound flippant, but every life lost is (often) another 3,4,5 scarred. At 6.30am, at which time Melsadie was with her father Leroy Parris, Ms Redmond had checked her bank balance at a garage. Giving evidence at the Berkshire Coroner's Court in Reading, Mr Yabani explained that the pair moved to Slough in 2007 after he accepted the role of Minister at St Andrews Church and Zdenka was pregnant with their first son. Whenever something like this happens, there's someone whose job it is to clean up the mess. Regardless of her true mental state prior to jumping, I place blame for neither the damages nor the resulting trauma on that woman. The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly . Try thinking how damaged the person is to consider ending their life, not an easy thing to do. Following the pregnancy news, the mother-of-two decided she didn't want to deliver her third child at Wexham Park Hospital, instead wanting to transfer to the Royal Berkshire Hospital in Reading, yearning for a different experience from her first two births, the coroner heard. Ms Redmond was seen wrapped in a poncho, walking hand in hand with Melsadie, who was dressed in a little furry parker jacket and wearing a winter hat and gloves. is rational - at least for now! Swiftly after, the couple received a letter from the Overseas Department stating they would have to pay to transfer hospitals - which sent Zdenka's mood spiralling, assistant coroner Alison Mccormick heard. - 140 15 . Of course she didn't. Incredibly (or perhaps not so incredibly) another person did the same thing there today. By 6pm, CCTV showed Ms Redmond was with Melsadie as she tried to book an Uber to an address in Beaconsfield and made a call to her mother, which did not go through. 2-8-16 Higashi-Kanda We should be sad that a woman couldn't face anymore life and think of her family who have lost a loved one. But before that can even happen, the stigma in society of seeking help needs to be broken. I'm sure she didn't mean to be knocked back onto the platform when she jumped. The lives that are always involved, the innocent people that have to suffer because the person wants to go out in style. Based on the collateral damage you think was somehow purposely premeditated? All trains should be like Namboku line - no stress there. Describing CCTV footage showing the mother and daughter today, Assistant Coroner Ian Wade KC told Beaconsfield Coroner's Court: 'Sadly, what we can see is that she gathers Melsadie up in her arms and jumps carefully from the platform down to what is known as the forefoot and is then struck by the train.'. Stevea great comment from you that doesn't go on to blame her parents and childhood! Many here seem to think that suicide is a matter of choice as is the means to commit the act. They also default on life insurance (which I think goes to the company, but not sure on that one). British Summer Time begins in March but do you wind your watch forward Britain braces for brutal -9C Arctic snap: Met Office warns more snow and ice could lash the country next Could Northern Ireland become the UK's Silicon Valley? On the day she had received news that some of her debt burdens had been relieved, if she had entered into a payment agreement which she did, and she was supposed to have started a new employment so her financial situation was potentially going to change.. why do people consistently suicide by jumping in front of a train? CCTV footage from the location shows a woman jumping in front of a moving train in Ghatkopar station in Mumbai. In a startling incident at the Dadar station Maharashtra's Mumbai, a woman jumped before a train. We want our comments to be a lively and valuable part of our community - a place where readers can debate and engage with the most important local issues. She was thinking of herself alone. sadly it does. It's simple ease of access. If she'd had someone to listen to her - really listen - this might not have happened. In the incident caught on CCTV, a policeman jumps after the woman to rescue her. Seems the bottom line in some of these posts is "I don't care about you or what you do, just don't inconvenience us.". & yes some people can't help being poor, but Geez being poor is better than being Dead its a NO Brainer. I am absolutely amazed how many people on this message board knew the deceased person. I like Cleo's comment about those contemplating suicide, taking time to get their affairs in order and as a ancillary benefit, truly sitting down to evaluate and think. She later made a number of phone calls, including one to her prospective employer and another fairly lengthy call with her landlord, Hightown Housing Association. Editors' Code of Practice. 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To be honest I think this choice of suicide is partly due to the 'normalcy' - it is a very common way that the next person might follow the same way regardless of why or whoever else gets pulled into it, but also it could be like giving a middle finger or a big **** all you to society, because it was society that let the person down?? How absurd and heartless to say, "legalize suicide". Meaning that I don't believe that Japanese people, generally speaking here, take things like this in the same manner as many if not most westerners do. Obviously the woman had problems, but if she left a family behind not only will she have shocked them deeply by killing herself, but she might be making them lose a lot more than that as well. Her mom went crazy, started shoutingfortunately she stopped her, grabbed her hand and took her away. . 'I noticed a woman in a white jacket back away and start running across the platform.'. What annoys me that this government ignores this problem like so many others, bullying, shody reactors and so on. (Just read today's article about women running into problems with loan companies. It's going to get worse before it gets better. If you must kill yourself, put your affairs in order first and choose a method that doesn't leave a gory mess. Japan has a major cultural flaw. Wow! I understand it completely. I'm glad to see some compassion being expressed; who knows what unspoken burdens people carry around. It is always good to be prepared for this happening to anyone close to you as this is so hard and frustrating to deal with. Then, it sort of happened to me as well as I was waiting for Keio line - a girl and her mom were sitting on the bench and as the train approached the girl tried to jump. An unidentified woman was injured when she jumped in front of a southbound No. According to police, the woman, Premalatha of Senthil Nagar in Urapakkam, had quarrelled . Life had got too much for her and she did the only thing she could think of to put a stop to it. It's very sad. In . The posts that are concerned about the effect on others (the people who were injured, the people who had to witness what happened, the families that have to cope with the aftermath, etc - No, I don't think expressing concern for those people is selfish. To request removal of your name from an arrest report, submit these required items to arrestreports@patch.com. Fax: +81 3 5829 5919 Should donate blood on a regular basis and visit third world poor countries to put life in perspective. My friends husband died last year through suicide. As Cleo said - a permanent solution to a temporary problem. A smile or even some expressed concern, verbal or not, can go a long ways to helping ease someone's state of mind and break down barriers; at the very least, it will provide a brief reprieve for a troubled soul. The 27-year-old was seen with her daughter Melsadie Adella-Rae Parris at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019 for one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. If you think you're experiencing a human rights issue, talk to us in your language. Now, I have said and will continue to berate the system here for their lack of help not only for people thinking about suicide but for mental disorders and illness in general, and the fact that there is still a lot of stigma is disgusting. She was seen 'pushing' and 'kicking' against a gate to the platform. Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression. Somehow she wasn't up to speed, couldn't get with the program. By Jamie Phillips and Charlie Moloney For Mailonline, Published: 21:07 GMT, 15 November 2022 | Updated: 10:11 GMT, 30 November 2022. People who commit suicide are selfish and in this case she even hurt innocent bystanders. We also have to consider the underlying cultural mindset. The inquest heard Ms Redmond had a bill to her electricity supplier of 334 outstanding, a bill to her gas supplier of 638 and she was in rent arrears of 1499.37. bass4funk; terruble, you were late 3 times because someone ended their life. I agree with steve@CPFC, there is no point trying to criticize this person. I wouldn't be surprised if some of those injuries were from bone fragments or other parts that came off from the impact. i pity those who commit suicide though it may be selfish to others but yeah, they are not in a sound mind to think about that. Counseling is almost never heard of and even mentioning that you have a mental sickness is already a death sentence, people will shun you like the Ebola virus. If your going to do it don't risk others. And quite frankly, here in Japan I have no idea at all how you would go about it. A big tsunami like Fukushima every year. UPPER WEST SIDE, NY A woman died after jumping in front of a train at the West 72nd Street and Broadway subway station Thursday night, an NYPD spokeswoman told Patch. It seems like it is getting worse. Our DIY expert, Beth Allen, founder of HIP Chicks (Home Improvement Project Chicks), knows which tools you need to take on big projects by yourself. CHENNAI: A 36-year-old woman attempted suicide by jumping in front of an EMU train with her 4-year-old son near Urapakkam on Thursday. But having witnessed that (note that nothing happened) I felt really sick. Suruga bank provides a variety of services including onlinebank accounts and loans, speciallytailoredto foreign customers living in Japan. And the number is increasing - the year before was around 30.000. If you are dissatisfied with the response provided you can I very much doubt that she took her own life so that people would miss their flights from Narita. More people rush to help the duo, and they are eventually pulled onto the platform. Still, I was always somehow conscious of the fact that there are better options. You are quite certain to succeed with something like this. The BTP officer said that the mother and daughter again spent time walking from platform to platform before climbing the footbridge, where Melsadie was seen looking 'distressed' and was picked up by Ms Redmond. A heavily pregnant woman died this morning after jumping in front of a high-speed train - also killing her unborn baby. Leighane Melsadie Redmond, 27, had been taken to court over unpaid bills before jumping onto the tracks at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019. Too bad about the woman who died, but I'm glad for the four who apparently weren't badly hurt. The victim was pronounced deceased at the scene. Perhaps not by those who say, "well just make it legal". Auto Loans by Suruga Bank do not require permanent residency to apply. The coroner said: 'At this stage, Melsadie is becoming rather frustrated and upset with her. She later made a number of phone calls, including one to her prospective employer and another 'fairly lengthy' call with her landlord, Hightown Housing Association. Most of us are simply turned off or revulsed and have enough problems on our plate everyday without having to come up with extra strength to help others, expecially those with desperately deep needs. I also very much doubt that she was in any kind of logical state of mind when she did this. Royal Mail worker Zdenka Yabani spiralled downhill after a scan of her unborn daughter revealed the news that her baby was 'small' and could have a facial abnormality. It is being investigated by police as a suspected case of 'child destruction . I am even more glad like i choose to work from home, never socialse anymore and just be with those who matter. Many would feel they are losing face by going to a counsellor, that that's a sign of weakness. Some subway lines were rerouted. Published on : 24 Feb, 2023, 12:39 pm. A woman along with her four-year-old daughter allegedly jumped in front of a goods train following a dispute in the family near Meva Nawada railway station of Sahaspur, police said on Saturday. 25/10/2022. According to investigators, her body was hit by the front car and then propelled five meters, through the glass door of a station shop that was situated on the platform. Make it "trendy"??! . A six-month-old baby boy died Friday after a woman jumped in front of an oncoming subway train at St. Clair West station. @BurakuminDes - I take your point, and I think anyone rational would agree with you, but I also think when you get to the point that you are thinking about diving in front of a train you are probably beyond rational thinking. Whatever the reason, it is clearly a very selfish act indeed. Reports suggested that the woman was accused in a case. Subsequently, a train slows to a halt on the tracks. Reports suggested that the woman was accused in a case. I was trying to get rid of her sadness.'. Cut her some slack. Did she intend to hurt 4 other people in her attempt to destroy herself? I feel very much sympathy for the woman but after knowing that her family will have to PAY to the train company, (possible all other damages, compensations for other victims? I have been late 3 times this month because someone thought to throw themselves in front of a train! There is a good deal of toing and froing.'. 'Usually when she had an episode, the signs were lack of sleep, lack of appetite and being angry but she was normal before and after the incident,' husband Jude said at the inquest into her death on Thursday. This woman was obviously highly coordinated, had excellent timing and gymnastics ability. Call the Samaritans on 116 123 or email them atjo@samaritans.org. 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